Foul fighting
What is the function of a referee in a boxing match? Certainly not to stop the fighting. In fact when there’s a boxing match, two people will always be fighting. No, the referee is there to make sure that there is no foul fighting. It is quite alright for two people to fight, as [...]
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Marital Attacks: Foul fighting; Reasoning; Kitbagging; Blaming; Criticism; Ridiculing
January 17, 2009Marriage, let’s Resolve Our Differences
November 24, 2008When both partners have expressed their desires explicitly in terms of outcome, the stage is set for the discussion of any differences. To ensure a win/win approach during this phase, the couple must stick rigidly to the “we versus it” approach, as opposed to the “you versus me” approach. The “we versus it” approach implies [...]
