Posts Tagged ‘Marriage’

Marriage Doubts

December 4, 2009

Marriage is like a cage; the birds outside are desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out. Unlived life is a destructive and irresistible force working quietly but relentlessly. The result is that the married woman begins to doubt marriage. The unmarried woman believes in it, because she desires marriage.

Happily Married

November 28, 2009

No man is so virtuous as to marry a wife only to have children. To the contract of marriage, besides the man and wife, there is a third party — Society; and, if it be considered as a vow — GOD: and, therefore, it cannot be dissolved by their consent alone.

Your ex is getting married. How do you feel?

September 17, 2009

There you are, happy with your life, dating a lot, feeling thin, and then word comes down the grapevine: Your ex is getting married. How do you feel? It depends. If you’re still attached to him, it can be a pretty devastating little piece of news. “I found out through friends that he had gotten [...]

High Price of Love, Money in the Bank

September 12, 2009

Should you get joint accounts, separate accounts, or a combination of both? It really depends on your communication style. To help you decide, here’s a rundown of the most common ways to manage money.

Breaking Down the Breakdowns

September 2, 2009

Like a complex machine with a lot of moving parts, communication can break down for many reasons. Each of these reasons has a remedy, but you have to know enough about the machine and its parts to spot the problem and get some glimmer of an idea how to fix it.

Open Conversation: Speaking and Listening Techniques for Couples

September 2, 2009

Sometimes you need specific rules to make sure that you’re each being heard by the other partner. That’s where the Speaker/Listener technique comes in handy. Used by many marriage educators to help smooth conflict, the Speaker/Listener technique provides couples with guidelines on how to communicate successfully. The rules for this technique aren’t hard. “Eventually, you [...]

Friends or Your Lover? Guys, who do you hang out most?

August 17, 2009

What Friends Are For But ask most married men how long it has been since they’ve hung out with an old friend from high school or college, and they’ll shrug sheepishly. The answer is often “years,” and we’re here to tell you that’s way too long.

Your Pal, Her Enemy:Does your wife give hard time on your friends?

August 17, 2009

He drinks too much and cheats on his wife. He drags you (twisting your arm, of course) to strip joints. If you were in a commercial with the guy, you’d be the one holding up your beer and blubbering, “I love you, man.” He’s your friend, and your woman hates him.

Making a Wedding Speech, for the best man

April 9, 2009

They say at the office that he does the work of two men: Laurel and Hardy. This is a man who started at the top — and sank. A morning wedding like this is a great idea. Then, if the marriage doesn’t work out, at least you won’t have wasted the whole day. Luke, I’m [...]

Divorce, Please Do Not Exploit Your Child

April 8, 2009

Children who live in broken homes are often expected to spend their young years trying to bring their quarreling parents together. They rarely, if ever, succeed. Sometimes their lives are brightened by a faint glimmer of hope, only to be greatly disappointed—times without number. Then again, some children in order to get their own way [...]